Honoring the Life and Legacy of
Robert (Robi) Michael Nason Jr.
Obituary
Robert “Robi” Michael Nason, Jr. died on August 23, 2022, at 301 Fields Avenue, Anderson, South Carolina. He was 42 years old, born November 10, 1979, in Zachary, Louisiana.
Robi was the beloved son of Robert “Mike” Michael Nason, Sr., and Paula Maze Nason of Anderson, SC; brother to Carrie Nason Greer of Morrison, CO; brother to Melissa Nason Reim of Greenville, SC; and uncle to Kendell, Sienna, and Madison. In addition, he had numerous relatives and friends from Michigan, Ohio, Illinois, South Carolina, Georgia, Louisiana, Texas, Colorado, Hawaii, and California.
His early schooling began in Sunnyvale, CA, then Dunwoody, GA, and finished in Cumming, GA, where he was in band, golf, tennis, track, basketball, and robotics. In his senior year of high school, he was the XO (Executive Officer) of his JROTC unit, as well as earning the rank of an Eagle Scout.
During those summers, Robi was active – hiking at the Boy Scouts’ Philmont Ranch in NM, the Flat Top Mountains of Colorado, the Appalachian Trail in Georgia and South Carolina, and attending many camp-outs and trips throughout the Southeast. He also participated in several weeklong B.R.A.G. (Bike Ride Across Georgia) events of 300 to 400+ miles long.
With an academic scholarship, he attended LaGrange College, GA (playing on the varsity basketball team as a freshman) majoring in Criminal Law. Then he attended Abraham Baldwin Agricultural College, GA (where he decided that bull-riding was not for him, but together with a friend, had a great time being disc jockeys on the school’s radio station), and majored in Wildlife Management.
After graduation, he worked for the Georgia Department of Natural Resources before enlisting in the Marines, just before his 28th birthday of November 10 (also the Marine Corps’ birthday), and served five years. He had two tours in Iraq and Afghanistan as a heavy military helicopter crew chief and mechanic with the “Ugly Angels.” His duty station was at Kaneohe Bay Marine Base on Oahu, HI. Before being discharged from the Marines, he conducted final inspections on helicopters before they were cleared for service.
After his discharge, he studied renewable energy (solar and wind turbines) in the Denver, CO area, working in those fields for several years. Because of his love for the outdoors, he became a park ranger for Lakewood, CO and then drove for the Rocky Mountain Fire Cache, distributing equipment and supplies to the wildfire fighting headquarters, throughout the West. He also signed up with the US Forest Service to be a fire jumper. He last worked for the Bureau of Reclamation, before leaving Colorado.
Robi decided to move to a warmer climate in 2019, and joined his parents in Anderson, SC. He really appreciated the winters (or lack thereof) and of being on Lake Hartwell. He became interested in a number of different topics and did extensive research – delving into the local history and that of the Cherokees, collecting mushrooms and other fungi, charting the surrounding trees and bushes, and knowing many of their Latin names. He was fascinated with the geology of the area and collected numerous crystal and mica rock specimens. He looked for lightning-struck trees, and researched electromagnetic energy.
Robi became a thorn in the side of several utility companies. He discovered his parent’s home had a faulty, patched ground line, and had the electric company replace it. He questioned the filtration and purification processes of the water company, even taking water samples and comparing them to the company’s, asking questions about the difference in the ratios.
Helping others was characteristic of Robi. He helped friends find a better place to live or to get a better job. He aided strangers who ran out of gas or had a flat tire. He could easily strike up a conversation with anyone. He would drive around the SC neighborhood in a golf cart, cleaning up the roadways, even removing animals that had been hit (and burying them). A local company that sold overstocked and store-returned items, let Robi buy some at a greatly reduced price or gave them to him for free, and he would donate them to other veterans.
Robi loved all things outdoors. Lake Hartwell was now his playground – kayaking, paddle boarding, canoeing, and swimming. He talked of doing a summer camp for children, introducing them to outdoor lore and crafts – sharing his Eagle Scout skills, bringing a love of nature. He enjoyed the sunsets and would call others to watch them, too, as well as having gatherings around the firepit. Driving back country roads, exploring, was something else he liked, especially if Bubbles (his feral-born Georgia cat) was by his side. Also, he definitely loved eating crawfish. The local buffets breathed a sigh of relief when he finally left!!
Unknown to many, Robi struggled with PTSD and major depression. In addition, he suffered from deteriorating physical conditions. He was very strong physically, and had the ability to endure pain and hide it. Unfortunately, he didn’t get the help and support he needed from the medical side of the VA. Instead, he had been misdiagnosed, given the wrong medication, had incomplete therapy, and different primary doctors. In the spring of 2021, he developed some unusual symptoms. His research indicated he might have been bitten by a tick, infecting him with Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever. The VA, as well as some local medical facilities ignored his many requests to get tested. Months later, it finally was confirmed. He had the disease!! In 2022, Robi experienced more cumulative problems and an unexpected crisis caused him to spiral rapidly downward.
Robi will be remembered for his compassion for others – to help, to share with, and to – simply enjoy life. He loved the Great Outdoors, to watch sunsets, travel, experience different foods, and to do the unexpected. Over the years, he had some very special people in his life, and he had some unique and special animal companions that also comforted him, such as Bandit, Pooter, Roxie, and Bubbles. All of this expanded and enriched his life.
There was something so special about him. He was asked, “Why did you enlist in the Marines?” He had been to college, had a job, and then he joined the Marines, at 27 years old. He answered, “I want to protect you.”
Robi will be greatly missed ………… ❤️
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal.”
– From an Irish Headstone
“My grandmother famously said that grief was the price we pay for love.”
– Prince William
Virtual Memorial Service
& Online Reception
Recorded Thursday, November 10, 2022
Robi’s family invites you to view the virtual Memorial Service & Reception honoring his life and legacy.
Robi Singing in the Car
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In Lieu Of Flowers Please Consider Donating To Your Local Humane Society or Animal Shelter
Robi was a big believer in taking care of animals and strays, and would go to local Humane Societies and animal shelters to adopt. Robi loved animals and cared deeply, not only about the pets that he had, but any animal he came across that needed help. A donation to your local animal shelter is a beautiful way to honor Robi’s memory
WE WOULD LOVE TO HEAR MORE STORIES ABOUT ROBI
This is a giant THANK YOU to all who were able to join in this Memorial to Robi. We are so sorry that many of you – who were in the queue – and we saw some of you on screen – didn’t get the chance to participate. A special THANK YOU to those who had the time and patience to wait !!
It is only from your stories that we realize the special impact Robi had on so many others. It has surprised us at the number of what-all he did! He loved many things and enjoyed sharing with others.
When Robi moved here – he was only a shadow of his former self, mentally spiraling away. Sadly, the same path far too many other veterans have taken. Think about Robi – to help the other ones.
We so enjoyed your stories and hope you will be able to add many, many more!!
I first met Rob (and Missy) at Kennolyn Camps the summer of 1999. We both worked there as counselors and I have wonderful memories from that summer. One of my favorite memories of Rob was when my cabin was picked to go on a backpacking trip with Rob from the trees to the beach. That evening at backpacking campsite after dinner, the mosquitoes were really bad and aggressive, Rob was prepared with his own head net and had spares for the counselors. But none of the kids had one. Everyone was getting bit so Rob whipped out a small bottle of Tabasco Sauce. He said the hot spice will prevent the mosquitoes from biting you and especially if you run after you take a drop or 2 of the Tabasco sauce. So we lined up the kids and dribbled a few drops of the sauce onto their tongues. The sauce was HOT so the kids would run through the campsite until it stopped burning their mouths. Then they noticed the mosquitoes weren’t attacking them. So they asked for more Hot sauce. Again, we had 16 kids running up and down the camp, yelling until it didn’t burn. It was so funny and all the kids thought it was fun too until they were so tired they crashed into their sleeping bags. I will miss Rob’s funny comments in his Southern accent and his gentle smile. I am so sorry that he struggled at the end and was not able to get the help he needed. My heart goes out to all his family and friends. Please remember the happy memories of Rob and what a wonderful person he was. Much love!
Leah, thank you for sharing <3. I think I have a pic of you and Robi at Kennolyn. When I find it I will post it.
Joe, Brandon, and Robi
Rob and I met at the Center for Naval Aviation Technical Training in New River, NC in 2005. After school we were both assigned to HMH-362 in Kaneohe Bay, HI. Rob and I were Barracks roommates and rackmates each deployment to the desert. We were more than that. Rob was my brother. Sweetest, kindest man I’ve ever met. Rob and I traveled together with the MCBH base basketball team as roommates as well. Your loss is felt across our Marine Corps family. Though spoke every few months, the lasy yome i saw Rob was when he was in Colorado and brought some bambibuckets up to Wyoming for the aireal figher fighting crews, he took a detour to have lunch with me and we visited the worlds largest hotspring. I cherish that day as it was the last i got to see my dear friend. Rob was my best friend, thank you all for sharing him with me.
That was a wonderful tribute to the life of Robi. He touched many people throughout his life and through each of his he will always be remembered. Mike and Paula, and family, our prayers are with you. Kendall, reach out to us and we will get you to Dawson Forest. Rest in Peace Robi – we will always remember you fondly. Bill and Neida Streit
Love you Robi, forever and ever…. Happy Heavenly Birthday – forever in my heart – Your sis
Rob was one of a kind! We will carry his memory forever. See on the other side my friend.
Errynn and Jessica Woodall
Rest In Peace Robi I enjoyed our friendship and all you have done❤️❤️❤️We love and miss you dear friend
We will miss Rob, he was a sweet, polite young man. Fun loving and a welcomed guest in our home many times.
I remember Robbie as happy and polite. He always was smiling. I just mainly knew Robbie through Boy Scouts. After Marines he would stop by and visit with Bryan. As you know our Daniel died on BRAG. So I understand the heartache.
I feel for the family and friends for the lost you are experiencing Robbie was a gentle soul.
I am trying to get started here so bear with me. It is sad that Robbie is gone, I cannot think of anything great or comforting to say. I do remember Robbie from Boy Scouts. On one hike on the AT he did not bring any water but instead brought a two-liter bottle of soda to keep his sugar up. I really do not think he ever needed the sugar he did just fine without it. After he got out of the Marines he stopped by a couple of times in Cumming. He did spend a night or two if I remember correctly. At the time he seemed a little bit lost like he was looking for a future or goal in life to work towards. He did not seem like a lot of Marines or ex Marines, not near a Gung Ho as a lot of them are. To me he was searching for something in his life. I am sad to hear of his passing, my heart goes out to his parents and family. There is really nothing that I can say that will help. I do believe we will see our loved ones on the other side after we pass on. Bryan Jaeck
Because we always lived a fair distance from Robi, his Uncle Bruce and I (Aunt Candy) weren’t able to spend a lot of time with him, which we now deeply regret. Some years ago, however, Robi, his sister Melissa, and their parents came to visit. Since we live very close to the Canadian border everyone decided it would be loads of fun to take a drive into the Great Northwoods. Robi’s interest in the environment was evident, as I explained that we were looking at some of the oldest exposed bedrock on the planet, being from the Cambrian Period 500 to 600 million years ago. Robi had many, many questions and I tried hard to answer a few of them! It was a beautiful day filled with laughing, the singing of oldies, and the sharing of stories. Now and in the future, as our days pass like clouds and the years disappear like smoke, that’s how I will always remember Robi, forever young, curious, laughing, and away but never gone.
Sending much love,
Aunt Candy & Uncle Bruce
Robi and I were in Boy Scouts together and one story always springs to mind when I think of him. I remember one trip down to the Okefenokee Swamp for a week of paddling around a base camp with a troop from Gainesville. It was a nice, relaxing trip and at night several tables of card games would start up, with hearts being the game of choice.
I had just learned from my Dad (Bryan Jaeck) the night before and Robi was sharing the hand so I could reinforce what I had learned by working with Robi who had just learned that night. The other players were Mr. Nason, Bryan Jaeck, and a gentleman from Gainesville who was about to hear some common language that develops over a game of hearts. Being scouts, there was no swearing involved – that might have been friendlier in hindsight. (Side note – for those who were in Boy Scouts long enough, certain adults are perpetually “Mr.”, “Mrs.” or some such. Robi referred to my Dad as Mr. Jaeck after Robi became an adult, and the next time I see Mr. Nason he will be addressed by me as Mr. Nason because that is how things ought to be at this point. I am now 45 for reference.) For those uninitiated into hearts, it is like golf that in most cases points are not your friend. The queen of spades is worth 13 points, half of the things you are trying to avoid. All other point cards are one point apiece.
Background aside, let’s head back to the table. Robi and I are holding our own against the adults. Being teenagers, and being in the lead, and playing against our fathers, we were enjoying ourselves immensely under the lanterns. (It is possible we were being a touch insufferable in our excellent fortune and collective strategy; but I give you my Scout’s Honor that I cannot reliably recall if that were the case and even if it was, such attitude was entirely warranted. It was a game of hearts after all.)
So we start on our current hand and have the queen of spades sitting there, ready for our use. The first chance we have to inflict a grievous wound in an opponent’s standing was when my Dad was vulnerable. However, Robi and I deemed it was better to hold off and merely knocked my Dad with one point. A few plays later Mr. Nason was wide open and we hit him with the dreaded queen of spades with glee.
The game paused.
Mr Nason then said firmly, “Robi, Bryce has been a bad influence on you. We are a long way from home, and I am your ride back. You could have given Bryan [my Dad] the queen of spades earlier, but gave it to me instead. Would you like to walk home Robi?” I think he was mostly, possibly joking. But this was a game of hearts.
The game stayed paused a moment more. We then continued. If I recall properly, Robi and I held out for a close win. We also made sure to target the gentleman from Gainesville as much as possible as both of us were not entirely sure on how to get home if we were…inopportune in our victory. The rest of the week Robi and I sat in a few games each night and had a blast, and I am happy to say neither of us walked home though we did occasionally tempt fate (and foot slogging).
Robi, wherever you are good luck and hope you are drawing some excellent cards.
I loved Robi as his Aunt and enjoyed seeing him grow up before our eyes. He was a special young man that had many dreams for his life. He loved his family so much and I’m sure he is happy with how they are handling their loss. He will be looking over them from heaven and loving all the love that we are expressing here. Our family is missing him and will keep him in our hearts always. Love and kisses ?? God Bless Aunt Sharon
Sharon – Thank you for your reply and sharing at the Memorial. Robi had many happy memories of being with all the family at your home.